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Respite for the carer: for people with no spare time
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Respite for the carer: for people with no spare time

Advice on respite for the carer tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience and…

Willa FarrowWilla Farrow·February 28, 2026·4 min read
Non-slip changes at home: the long game versus the quick fix
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Non-slip changes at home: the long game versus the quick fix

Put non-slip changes at home back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good months…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·February 22, 2026·4 min read
Where grab bars belong: costing it honestly
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Where grab bars belong: costing it honestly

Advice on where grab bars belong tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some patience and…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·September 14, 2026·4 min read
Night lighting that prevents falls: five common misreadings
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Night lighting that prevents falls: five common misreadings

Advice on night lighting that prevents falls tends to split in two: impossibly complex, or sold as one click. Reality sits between. It needs some…

Sonia MarchettiSonia Marchetti·September 8, 2026·4 min read
A medication reminder system: only a few moves matter
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A medication reminder system: only a few moves matter

Separate two things in a medication reminder system: the outcome you want and the action you can sustain. When the gap is too wide, shrink the action…

Willa FarrowWilla Farrow·September 2, 2026·4 min read
Check-in routines for someone alone: the wrong order wears you out
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Check-in routines for someone alone: the wrong order wears you out

Separate two things in check-in routines for someone alone: the outcome you want and the action you can sustain. When the gap is too wide, shrink the…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·August 27, 2026·4 min read
Setting up a phone for an older person: five common misreadings
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Setting up a phone for an older person: five common misreadings

Put setting up a phone for an older person back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·August 21, 2026·4 min read
Preparing for a hospital visit: when a professional should step in
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Preparing for a hospital visit: when a professional should step in

Most people do not fail at preparing for a hospital visit from misunderstanding it. They fail because understanding is not doing. What follows is the…

Sonia MarchettiSonia Marchetti·August 15, 2026·4 min read
Handing over a condition file: from messy to orderly
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Handing over a condition file: from messy to orderly

Most people do not fail at handing over a condition file from misunderstanding it. They fail because understanding is not doing. What follows is the…

Willa FarrowWilla Farrow·August 9, 2026·4 min read
Softening food without losing nutrition: costing it honestly
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Softening food without losing nutrition: costing it honestly

Anyone who has spent time on softening food without losing nutrition has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence.…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·August 3, 2026·4 min read
First response after a fall: the wrong order wears you out
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First response after a fall: the wrong order wears you out

Put first response after a fall back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good months…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·July 28, 2026·4 min read
Noticing cognitive change: how to tell you are doing it right
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Noticing cognitive change: how to tell you are doing it right

If you only read one paragraph, read this: noticing cognitive change depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the time. Arrange…

Sonia MarchettiSonia Marchetti·July 22, 2026·4 min read
Choosing age-friendly furniture: how to start and how to keep it
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Choosing age-friendly furniture: how to start and how to keep it

Put choosing age-friendly furniture back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good…

Willa FarrowWilla Farrow·July 16, 2026·4 min read
Picking a walking aid: for people with no spare time
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Picking a walking aid: for people with no spare time

If you have already tried picking a walking aid and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·July 10, 2026·4 min read
Bathroom safety: from messy to orderly
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Bathroom safety: from messy to orderly

Most people want bathroom safety to make things better. The workable version of that goal is steadier: a floor you can hit on a bad day. Everything…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·July 4, 2026·4 min read
Managing room temperature: when a professional should step in
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Managing room temperature: when a professional should step in

If you have already tried managing room temperature and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Sonia MarchettiSonia Marchetti·June 28, 2026·4 min read
Mood and social contact: for people with no spare time
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Mood and social contact: for people with no spare time

Put mood and social contact back into a real week, with overtime, travel and days you cannot be bothered. Any plan that only survives good months…

Willa FarrowWilla Farrow·June 22, 2026·4 min read
Splitting care shifts: the wrong order wears you out
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Splitting care shifts: the wrong order wears you out

If you have already tried splitting care shifts and dropped it, the fault is usually in the setup: a starting point set too high, an environment…

Harriet LowellHarriet Lowell·June 16, 2026·4 min read
The long-term cost of care: turning choices into a process
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The long-term cost of care: turning choices into a process

If you only read one paragraph, read this: the long-term cost of care depends on how the situation is set up, not on how you feel at the time.…

Eloise FontaineEloise Fontaine·June 10, 2026·4 min read
A hospital bag list: turning choices into a process
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A hospital bag list: turning choices into a process

Anyone who has spent time on a hospital bag list has a failure story: a strong start, a collapse in the middle, then silence. This is not another…

Sonia MarchettiSonia Marchetti·June 4, 2026·4 min read